Jaxn usually rode in his car on camera dispensing sage and sincere advice. He sold "Black Men Don't Cheat" shirts and books whose titles are the perfect gallows from which he eventually hung himself. He stated emphatically that all Black women were queens and they didn't need a man, unless that man was just----like----him.
Long story short, Jaxn was busted cheating with multiple women, some of whom he had sex with in his marital bed, while he and his wife were "separated," you know, on a break, like Ross and Rachel.
For Jaxn, being separated is a loophole he created in God's law to allow him to pound as much ass as he could while legally still hitched.
And that's what Jaxn did according to several women who all knew he was married, but still had sex with him and then went on to gossip about it online with Janx's scandalous rivals on Youtube.
But all of this illustrates a pressing problem in the Black community, one that may do what racism and legal oppression could not, and that is to irreparably break us and force the end of Black people as we know it.
What many do not know (or will not acknowledge) is that there is a relationship apocalypse in the Black Community. Black children are being born out of wedlock at a rate of 77.3%, seventy percent of Black women will never be married and Black women are dead last in every aspect of single dating desirability. Black men aren't doing a lot better because all of those babies have unwed fathers, too and our chances of getting married are shrinking as well.
You wouldn't know this looking at social media, however. Online, Black women are happy, living their best life and do not care about no man. But this is a facade. In private, Black women are struggling, lonely, and very angry. Yes, a lot of you are lying and we know it's because if you complain, people will call you bitter and say it's all your own fault.
Then here comes Derrick Jaxn (and every Black minister in America) to tell Black women that (1) They are the best just as they are, (2) They deserve to have it all, (3) It's not their fault if men won't give them what they want and (4) It's probably a man's fault because men ain't shit.
And Black women fell for this line because along with hearing this from Blacks, they also had mainstream America telling them that women were equal to men and deserved everything that men had whether those men were Black or white.
Meanwhile, Black men take advice from no one and constantly complain about everything Black women do, which when you put it all together comes out as "Black women ain't white women," a pathetic and self-serving excuse to be pathetic and self-serving.
And while this war goes on, we keep fucking and pouring more and more single parent babies into the abyss of our collective failure. It is not just the absence of the father that is bad, it the absence of both parents together that is doing us in.
And none of us will admit Black people do not have the wealth to cushion the hard times that come from divorce and single parenting. Black women and men want babies and are both biologically predisposed to have them. We act like the babies fall from the goddamned sky, then suck the life and money from us like demons.
This pathology is deadly and it has been eating away at the fabric of Black America since the slaves were freed. Of course it has been helped along by racism, but still we are ultimately responsible for this.
And this made it possible for Derrick Janx who will undoubtedly use this infamy to further his career as creepy, lying asshole. The history of Black people has been filled with these charlatans using the misery of Black women to line their pockets and one can only wonder will if it will end before we do as a people.